Proposition 8 in California. A choice on a ballot in a democracy. And voters chose to not call a union between a woman and a woman or a man and a man a "marriage." Demonstrations at LDS temples have followed the vote and vandalism at LDS chapels has been reported. And I'm sad.

I'm sad because my church and my beliefs are under attack. I'm sad to read of my church being accused of "hate speech." For the official stance of the church on the issue, with all the background, see http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-divine-institution-of-marriage. In reading and re-reading the articles, I see no "hate speech". I do see a clear statement of the church's beliefs on the issue. And I see clear direction to it's members to approach the issue with "respect for others, understanding, honesty and civility." We are also counseled to posses "...love, kindness and humanity to all people."

Anyone who knows me, knows I embrace dialogue and debate as long as it is conducted with civility and respect. I try hard to listen to beliefs that differ with mine, although I do occasionally slip into a raised voiced bulging eyed backup debate style when I feel passionate about an issue, and I'm later embarrassed at myself for acting that way.

I guess what I'm saying with this post is, I support the church's position on the issue. In my life, the church has only brought me joy. By following it's tenants I have developed a deep and abiding faith in my Savior and have learned to trust in Him. I feel no malice or ill will for any who believe and live their lives differently than I do, and I love many who do.